(Pause)..."WHO EXACTLY DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?"

Idealism vs. Realism

From time immemorial, the battle between the Idealists and Realist existed. The bulk of the contentions and disagreement in the world today still take their roots from the unending battle of these two kinds of beings.
Always at logger-heads with their views, don't blame either, it just the way they are.
Families have been torn appart, friends parted ways, nations have splitted in to various countries, as the centre cannot old where these two sit atop the leadership of a particular place (especially at the same or near same time).
It's always and forever will be a life of arguments and contention between these two, very rarely do they com to terms. I wish they learnt to be who they are, things could have been a lot more easier to mend, but unfortunately, they grew into what they were meant to be. As long as you couldn't stop their growth, you wouldn't be stopping their idealistic and realistic nature.
In order for us to be able to differentiate between idealism and realism, we must first have a thorough understanding of the two terms. Idealism is when you envision or see things in an ideal or perfect manner. Realism, on the other hand, tends toward a more pragmatic and actual view of a situation. The two concepts can, in layman's terms, be deemed different in perspectives; with idealism focusing on what could be, and realism focusing on what actually is.
These commonly accepted definitions of the words are rooted in the philosophical uses of the terms. In philosophy, when discussing the issues of perception, idealism is a theory that states that our reality is shaped by our thoughts and ideas. Realism, on the other hand, deals with the fact that reality has an absolute existence independent from our thoughts, ideas and even consciousness.
Using the classic test of whether the glass is half empty or half full as an example, we see that idealists tend to be positive thinkers – i.e. those who see the glass as being half full. Realists many not hold the opposite or negative point of view, but they do view a situation through less hopeful eyes. Realists are stereotypically seen as people who are very rational, who think carefully, and weight their options before making a choice. In this sense, realists make safer and more practical choices when compared to idealists, who may be willing to make more risky decisions.
These perspectives also have an impact on how individuals deal with success or failure in their lives. An idealist who is always in search of the good, and might be less affected by setbacks than a realist. However, being lost in a world of fantasy and unachievable goals may not always be a good thing, as an idealist may set goals that are impossible or grandiose. A realist, on the other hand, is more likely to set achievable goals, and follow their pursuit in a planned manner


Overall, idealism and realism can be understood as two different perspectives. Some of the key differences between them include:
1. Idealism causes you to see things in a very hopeful manner, shaping situations with your own ideas. Realism, on the other hand, causes one to assess a situation as it is, without overt emotional involvement
2. Idealists tend to be more positive when compared to realists, in how they perceive things and carry out tasks.
3. When making decisions, realists are more goal oriented and thorough than idealists, who may have lofty ambitions, but lack the clarity and focus to put them into action in an achievable way.
Whoever it is you think or now have known you are, there's a positive side to handling the inadequacies that may arise or even already exists in such natural tendencies of yours.
Of all areas of concern, the poor management of aggression and handling of views and opinions by these two strikes my heart the most. I strongly believe we would be able to create even more peace in our world if these two will learn to disagree peaceably. And perhaps, who knows? They might just strike a chord of agreement before rapture!
Having said all that,
LISTENING carefully to the other party, while HOLDING your views UNTIL THEY HAVE SPOKEN can help to calm the tension and ease the friction, often a vivid characteristics of arguments between the Idealists and Realist. That bit I believe is achievable, bringing you to agree with eachother? I remain skeptical.
Where do you stand in all of these?,
To which of these two extremes do you think you belong to?, and
How have you been able to manage life with the other party?
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You mean me, my answer?, which of the two variants am I?
Well, you can take some guesses after reading any 2-articles of mine.

The Wordsmith™
(2013).